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16 April 2016

DOMESTIC VIOLENCE. Laura, Marc, Paula


Article: 


Ten years after Spain introduced a network of courts specializing in domestic violence cases, experts are applauding the specific attention the law is now giving to victims but warning that sexist stereotypes and forms of behavior persist.

So far this year, 48 women have died and 42 children have been left mother-less as a result of gender violence in Spain.

Organizations that work with victims insist on the need to report domestic abuse more frequently and to eradicate sexist attitudes that remain deeply ingrained in Spanish society.

“Women have changed a lot in recent decades and men have adapted badly”

MIGUEL LORENTE, EXPERT ON GENDER VIOLENCE

In 2014, the number of complaints grew for the first time since 2008, reaching 126,742, a 1.5-percent rise from 2013.

But only nine of the 48 women killed by their partners this year had filed a complaint. And without one, the state’s victim protection mechanisms cannot be activated.

A report by the Adecco Foundation released on November 25, which marks the International Day for the Elimination of Violence Against Women, ties the number of complaints to the effects of the economic crisis.

The foundation, which helps victims find employment, surveyed 300 abused women and found that 91 percent failed to report violence out of fear that either they or their partners would lose their job.

The survey also revealed that 65 percent of victims did not have a job at the time of the abuse. And 81 percent responded that the best way to deal with abuse was to be financially independent.

“The recent rise in reports could be an indicator of women’s increased trust in an awakening labor market,” said Francisco Mesoneros, director general of Adecco.

Meanwhile, the president of the Domestic and Gender Violence Observatory, Ángeles Carmona, welcomed the rise in the number of criminal convictions.

The latest Interior Ministry figures show that six percent of Spanish inmates are serving sentences for gender violence. “Abuse no longer enjoys impunity,” says Carmona.

Her predecessor in the post, Inmaculada Montalbán, also applauds the trend but notes that the second major tool in the domestic violence law – education – has suffered setbacks in the last decade.

“Only nine of the 48 women who were killed by their partners this year had filed a complaint”

“The justice system acts when the violence has already taken place,” she says. “The best vaccine against violence is education.” Montalbán feels that the elimination of civic education courses from the school curriculum has “deactivated” a good tool for breaking stereotypes.

Miguel Lorente, an expert on gender violence, shares her concern.

“Women have changed a lot in recent decades and men have adapted badly,” he says. “This makes many young men use violence to keep controlling women. Faced with the latter’s steps to free themselves, they respond with greater violence.”




Mindmap


Questions:

  • What is your opinion about domestic violence?
  • Who do you think is guilty?
  • Why do you think some women don't leave their husbands? What do you think about what Leslie Morgan says in the video?
  • Do you think that violence is a good solution?. Why/Why not?
  • Why do you think the attacker stalks his partner?


15 April 2016

DOMESTIC VIOLENCE. CAROL, NURIA, MARTA

Pictures
A Deadly Cycle
The four stages of an abusive relationship that can happen over and over— until you stop them
Survivors of domestic violence—as well as their friends and family—will tell you they’ve heard these excuses so many times before, they’ve begun to sound like a broken record.
It’ll never happen again.
He says he’s really sorry.
It’s my fault I made him angry—I should be a better partner.
He’s just stressed out right now.
He’s only controlling because he loves me.
These excuses fall into what’s called the Cycle of Abuse, a four-stage pattern that abuse takes sometimes hundreds of times over in an abusive relationship, according to the  Centre County Women’s Resource Center, an advocacy group in State College, Pennsylvania for survivors of abuse[1]. An abuser can cycle through these four stages in anywhere from a few hours to a year or more.
Cycle of Abuse
First, tensions build and the victim the can become fearful. The victim may feel it’s her duty to placate her abuser. Next, there is an incident. This can verbal, emotional or physical abuse backed with anger, threats and intimidation. After this comes reconciliation, the excuse stage. The abuser apologizes, blames the victim or denies the abuse occurred at all. Finally, the calm stage; the incident has been forgiven and, for a while, things seem perfect. Until, of course, the first stage starts all over again. Tensions build and soon, another incident will occur.
The length of the cycle usually diminishes over time, warns the Center’s website, and the “reconciliation” and “calm” stages can disappear completely, leaving only violence behind. Many victims are either too ashamed or too fearful to leave their abuser, convinced that they let it go on too long, or that it was their fault the abuse started in the first place.

Or, the victims may be convinced they are in love with their abuser. “Survivors feel like [the abuser] is a person they can change. This is not love—it’s traumatic bonding,” says Yvette Lozano, director of intervention and emergency services with the nonprofit  Peace Over Violence. She says the cycle of violence is something that can be passed down to children as well. “Children witness this growing up, and they feel like this is normal and this is how relationships are supposed to be. That’s why we educate teens so they know what is a healthy relationship and what’s not.”

                                                 


DISCUSSION:
- What do you know about domestic violence?
- Which are the main features of home violence?
- Why does the abuser attack his partner?
- If one of your loved ones was going through domestic violence what will you do?
- Do you think that society gives enough suport to the victims?
- Do you think that upbringing can have an influence in adult relationships?
- Do you think that maybe in the past there was psychological violence from women to men but men didn’t say anything because of their “role” in society?
- If your mother or father was being abused, what would you do? Would you find it easy to act?

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